The newest of stats in here .. read all about it..

Ok, there are things that one can live with and things one can’t and this is one of the cants elder abuse. Today someone told me they were in a meeting and newest stats were out, not kids, but elders mostly by family members and then others in society.

What and where have the human race go as a whole.

I am sorry I ever said to my child, no that’s okay, or don’t bother
I don’t need help. Or it’s okay that you didn’t come with or send a card for my birthday, or holiday, or sickness. I am so sorry I gave anyone the wrong message by acting as if I were superwoman.

Because in fact we all need each other, mothers, need their kids and kids need their moms/dads, grandchildren need impute of their grandparents. Today the bottom of society exposed itself in America and Americans as the lost generation and it doesn’t stand tall.

In the United States of America, I have witnessed horrendous wrongs and always said when it reaches the elders all will come the last. Traditions are gone and people are not slaves to there own contempt.

I think about kids and parents, hate, disdain, why didn’t I feel that? I certainly wasn’t treated the way I know you should treat a child, at times I wasn’t liked or loved and I was my sickest I was not able to stay at a family home.

I didn’t spend much time with them for many years and asked why didn’t you take care of me, and was told “I don’t know, I felt I didn’t like you and I am terribly sorry for that you should have never known what its like to not have a home.”

Forgiveness didn’t come over night but it came and I had the opportunity to take care of my family with honor and respect and love. We shared what we could without regret.

I would never hurt them, or abuse them or treat them as if they weren’t valued, they were my parents. Nursing home came into existence because of two reasons, it was a business and they got the support of the world that forgot they had a family.

Becoming famililess (new word) wasn’t easy it took many generations and lots of money and no mistakes. The more the family divided the heavier it fell and the more it shattered into and under a new sort of insanity.

Where will it go from here?